Why are we in hiding?

I walked around bald all the time but wore a beanie at night to keep me warm during chemo. I wanted everyone to know I had cancer and that I was not a drunk or drug addict such was the way I walked. I've showed my new one titted body to quite a few people and all agree that it's barely noticeable, naked or clothed. Although I would like reconstruction, I may not be a candidate, in which case I'll get a pretty tattoo. It's not a major concern for me and like @Zoffiel, have found that men don't care. I never had tits anyway. I've been single for over 20 years and my tits have never been one of my features. I just hope that Arimidex doesn't do to me what they said menopause would (so far, so good...)