I learnt very quickly that nobody really was looking at me at all...I found people the opposite very accepting. I didnt choose to go out bald, not because of society, but because it was personal to me and how I felt about myself and wanted to look. I could have cared less about anyone else lol. I did choose to Reconstruct again not because it's what would be expected...it's personal and it's actually a very hard road on every level. Whether you do or don't makes zero difference, I have a friend who didn't, everyones different.