Hi Lynne
I'm so sorry you have to feel a bit abandoned at such a time. You sound like a very strong and independent lady. It seems that the people in your life are not used to you needing to be looked after as you are probably the one always looking after others. Sometimes you have to show vulnerability before people take any notice of your needs. I really hope somebody comes to your assistance at this time. It sounds like you really need it.
Thinking of you and wishing you luck with your surgery.
Hugs, Jeanine xxx