I should mention that a friend invited me to join her at a lovely Breast Cancer PYNKS Support group last Saturday morning. Online there is mention of groups for both primary and secondary/metastatic cancer so I went along. Unfortunately (for me) I discovered that now this group is solely for women with metastatic cancer, so even though they were very welcoming with kind, accepting and supportive people, a professional coordinator and an excellent speaker, it's not going to work. My friend assumed my cancer was metastatic, and I assumed she knew it was primary when she invited me. Very disappointing.