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JessicaV
12 years agoMember
When it is all too much!
Why is it that the problems and the hassles and the worries and pressures all come at once?
The last couple of weeks have brought so much stress into my life and problems for my loved ones that tea...
HazelB
12 years agoMember
hi Jessica, your post so resonated with me, its a crazy world isn't it? It's never usually just the one things that challenges .. in my case it was two or three, sometimes i even stopped counting! I used to resist and feel why me? and what have i done to deserve this? when i looked for understanding i found no solace - when i gave up, and gave myself fully to the despair - it was as though i met my demons and there was nothing left - either to feel angry about, to rail against - just nothingness. And into the emptiness crept peace and, ultimatley serenity - nothing changed on the outside - my problems were still there but i experienced some sort of internal shift - in writing this, perhaps it was letting go of any expectations that i had put on myself. I'm not sure - i just felt a huge relief at giving myself permission to be me - however i showed up, it was as though angel wings embraced me and i felt comforted
i had a few mantras that helped me through my darkest days -
"this too will pass" - just like the good times don't last forever, so too the dark times pass
And similar to Hazel M, just taking one day at a time - although in my case i just followed the breadcrumbs of life - taking one step at a time,
We are all waliking this journey with you, coping as best we can, take care Jessica, with love and light
HazelB