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We are all a little bit different in how we handle this. I'm glad you have found this network as it is a great way to get support on what can be a scarey and lonely time. How wonderful that your nephew is coming to give you a hand while you recover from surgery! You will find that is one of the positives that can come out of this awful situation. So many people will want to help, from relatives, friends and even people who you meet along the way. I found that it did not help to spend too much time on the why. Even the experts can't answer that one yet. I tried to focus on what was in front of me and what I could do to help myself. I read up on what to expect regarding treatment and prepared for each step as best as I could. It is inspiring to read of other people's experiences and to know that many people go onto lead healthy lives after treatment. Wishing you all the best for your surgery and whatever treatment you may need after that. I hope you feel welcome to use this network for support whenever you need it. Let us know how you go. Deanne xxx