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Very dark place at the moment
Dear friends, not sure if I'm doing the right thing posting this, but I need help! I feel in such a dark place emotionally, physically and mentally. Three years have gone by after many difficulties...
Hi Sue, sorry to hear you are not in a good place, I wish I could give you a hug. I only have one son and we had a falling out before I got BC and we didn't talk for 3 years. I was devastated and cried a whole lot, he was very selfish and needed to grow up. We are ok now, but that was a dreadful time in my life. Maybe you and your husband could get some type of counselling, you both have so much to deal with, of course, you are both stressed. Self esteem is a big issue after BC, we all struggle with our 'new look'. I hope letting some of it out on here has helped and I hope things improve for you, sending you big big cyber hugs,
Hazel xx