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positive3negati
9 years agoMember
Vaginal atrophy. Why didn't someone warn me?
There’s a long list of things nobody warns you about when you go through cancer treatment. It is fairly well known that chemotherapy, radiation therapy and significant surgery all carry risks and sid...
Cath62
2 years agoMember
@MovinOn your post is sad. If your BF won't stick around then I don't think that is being a good BF. And if it's only sex keeping him there, even if you had heaps of sex, he would leave gor some other reason eventually.
Sure sex is fun and part of a relationship but there are products and different ways to explore expressing love and intimacy. Have you listened to Charlotte Tottenham podcast on this topic? It is so helpful.
Please don't say you don't care if the cancer comes back. You will, you definitely will. As someone dealing with mets, I guarantee you that you won't want cancer back. Talk to your dr, talk to a counsellor but do not go off your meds just only to give sex to a BF - who may or may not stay with you.
Sure sex is fun and part of a relationship but there are products and different ways to explore expressing love and intimacy. Have you listened to Charlotte Tottenham podcast on this topic? It is so helpful.
Please don't say you don't care if the cancer comes back. You will, you definitely will. As someone dealing with mets, I guarantee you that you won't want cancer back. Talk to your dr, talk to a counsellor but do not go off your meds just only to give sex to a BF - who may or may not stay with you.