The New Me.
I was so looking forward to a works Christmas Party this weekend to catch up with people I hadn't seen for a quite a while as well as friends who have been there for me since the beginning of this sh...
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@rose The new normal is bloody hard for many. I have this weird thing where inside I feel very distanced from everyone and everything at normal social events. I feel a lack of confidence which isn't helped by the AI word salad and memory issues. But I can fake it quite well. I hope I sync up again soon.
I discussed the response thing with a counsellor once, and we've often talked about it here. She said save the genuine response for your nearest and dearest, and your medical team. Otherwise you open yourself up to hurt. Someone here suggested 'As good as can be expected', which is an excellent answer because it's sufficient on its own, but invites further enquiries from those who wish to have a deeper conversation. I'm also a fan of 'vertical' when I'm in the mood to have a laugh, or be dour. Depends on the delivery!
Take care of yourself Rose. We can always extend understanding to those who struggle with the news of bad things happening to their friends, it can bring up complex emotions and issues. However it is also worth remembering the wise words of Maya Angelou "When people show you who they are, believe them".
For now, you look after you. K xox
I discussed the response thing with a counsellor once, and we've often talked about it here. She said save the genuine response for your nearest and dearest, and your medical team. Otherwise you open yourself up to hurt. Someone here suggested 'As good as can be expected', which is an excellent answer because it's sufficient on its own, but invites further enquiries from those who wish to have a deeper conversation. I'm also a fan of 'vertical' when I'm in the mood to have a laugh, or be dour. Depends on the delivery!
Take care of yourself Rose. We can always extend understanding to those who struggle with the news of bad things happening to their friends, it can bring up complex emotions and issues. However it is also worth remembering the wise words of Maya Angelou "When people show you who they are, believe them".
For now, you look after you. K xox