Custard
13 years agoMember
Sydney together
Hi all,
how many of US will be in Sydney? We must try to snatch some time away for a drink or two. Anyone bringing their spouses? I am.
It will be fun, and exciting, and empowering!
Mandy
Oh, Leonie, whay can I say. Please try not to worry about how Bill will handle the future what ever it might be. You need all of your energy focused on you and that is just how it must be for now. I am sure you have given him the very best of yourself in the past, you are such a loving soul. Know that we are all with you and that you can share your every thought with us.
Bill will come through fine, and try not to be affected by all of the fabulous positive stoties we hear about support from hubbies during ilness. It doesn't always happen, and from my own experience it seems to me fairly normal for the man to crumble under the pressure. They worry for themselves and for us and sometimes just can't do both. Specially if he sees you as a strong woman, it is hard to see you in a lesser state. He is probably thinking, who is going to look after me while my wife is unable to?
He loves you, that's what matters. Sometimes it seems we have to do the worrying for both too. Have a rest from that worry for now and focus on being well.
I hope I haven't stepped over the line, just want you to be happy and healthy xxxxxAnn