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hi my name is paula. just over 12 months ago i had a 4cm lump removed from my left breast. i was lucky and it was contained in the breast and hadnt spread to the nodes. surgery was followed by chem...
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Hey PaulaI don't have the added stress of woking but i do have chemo brain and I am finding everyone just accepts that my treatment has finished so full stop, end of line, all finito,she is great and moved on and ready to take of the world. So fullstop comes the end of support and loving caring feeilings and it just okey dokey all good and a bed of roses so get on with it.IF only life was so easy.Can you maybe sit the staff down and somehow try to explain to them that it aint that simple so they need to be a bit more supportive and understanding for however long you need them to and I am sure you will find young or oldthey will come to the party cause you don't have to pretend you are superwomen cause as I can vouch for, you still need some looking after and nurturing sometimes and unless you tell people they can't possibly realise until they have been down the same path we all have on this site. Tell everyone around you how it really is and I know they will understand.Lots of love, Mich xoxoxoox