If my husband snores too much,I go sleep in the spare bed.You are just starting this crap journey and will need lots of support- physically and emotionally.Some men are more helpful when it's spelt out to them-they can't always read our minds.My world came crashing down when I broke my ankle and couldn't get downstairs with a heavy plaster on.I hated losing control of the house but had no choice.I had to let standards go and I had to delegate, write lists,instructions etc.My husband and 2 girls were quite capable but needed reminding-they didn't think to do things automatically.Put yourself first now and come here to vent or get support from your pink sisters. Big hug,Tonya xx