Super sensitive!

Oh Robyn,

If only you realised how reassuring your messages are to me and others I'm sure! You know exactly what to write and your words are like a soft pillow for the heart (and mind!) x

You are so understanding and obviously a beautiful, caring person!!!!!

The way you explained about the way we cope in such a situation is so true.  To me it is like being on the train and you just have to get to the destination before you can do anything else! So, now that I've gotten off the train it seems I am thinking more about my Mum, even though I had thought lots about her with the bc, but she is forefront in my thoughts more now!  I feel like I am grieving for her but I have never lost anyone close before and there is no rule book on if I am doing it right! (Hope that makes some sense Robyn)......I get teary in certain situation....eg.  We were driving down a long country road on Sunday and there was a cat that had been run over.  I said to the kids..."That cats in heaven with Oma now"....then mentioned the fact to them that my beautiful cat that had passed away 5 years ago and had been my first baby long before my human babies was probably being looked after by Oma now too! Well....I could hardly see the road for the tears.....! But, it was a beautiful thought!

Oh, those two littlies of yours were so lucky to have had you in their lives Robyn....I'm sure they remember the hundreds of other hugs you had for them!!! xx

Glad all is going well with you Tamoxifen wise....I'm not having any issues atm either...let's hope it stays that way!  Will be sure to keep on this site regularly....I did have a bit of a break from it - don't know why, just mood think I guess!!! Take care gorgeous - Jen xxx