Just picked up your message as I have been away overnight with my step-son showing him around the local Oman mountain area.
Yep a couple of beers just might do it. You might need a stiff wine or two. Pleased it hit a chord. We worry so much and spend way too much time being unhappy. My plan, it doesn't always work, is to just have as much fun as I can. Try shopping for a lacy stretchy top. The women in DJs are wonderful.... I always go there when I make it back to Oz for appointments. Where do you live Louise?
Love Julie