Oncologist Response to Fear of Recurrence

@Sister well this all sounded extremely reminiscent of what my Oncologist told me at the end of Treatment in 2015. Though I'm 3 years on, he's told me clearly he's not worried of me getting BC again but a secondary...gee thanks :/ though he said diet and exercise are great to feel better but won't change an outcome of genetics. He said to me exactly the same thing, there is NED or you have it, there's no test to show before it happens, that's why they don't do constant tests. Remembering there are hundreds upon hundreds of mutations that have not been identified in BC at this point. So I bounce in every 6 months because he wont let me go to a year LOL, doing great and just tell him all good and see you later. I don't worry about it anymore, why? can't change what will be, I tried with a passion after the 1st time and I never dreamed I'd get it again. It's a beast...but ladies just live, live, live and enjoy in whatever capacity you choose, I certainly do :) It's been a really long 7yrs but I focus less on looking back and more moving forward. Hugs xo