Hi Lisa, I shave my hair after the 1st chemo before it fell off itself. It looks funny but I just want to prepare myself (the truth is hair gone doesn't make me hurt but just the appareance) However, wig and scarf did a great job.
I've search around in the web like you as well before, I had a thought - without trying on, I wonder how I look like. FYI, I am a Chinese face, so the figures and features is different from you, like you had a beautiful bigh brown eye, high nose, long blonde hair. I was flat with a pair of glass, and very dark hair.
So when I read through all the info from the Breast Care nurse, they provide me from the Cancer Council leaflet, saying about wig and Looks good feel better. Since I've look up from the Web already, I give them a go and prepare to spend on it. So lucky there were run by Government and lots to choose and try (also scarf/turban/hats) The lady there, Jenny was so patience, and let me play around and trying on all different types for hours. And it's free. I finally got 2 hats and 1 wig. I got a wig (can't be black, because the wig looks very plastic when in black in colour) brown short hard, just fit my head size. Jenny said I could choose max 4 piece at a time, but welcome me to go back from time to time to change style, haha. They really care our feeling.
Also, since I don't have job at the moment, I received a concession card from Medicare, as far as I know from Looks Good Feel better, we could redeem approx 150$ on wig purchase. I shopped 1 of the wig shop here in Gold Coast, average their price 200-300+ depends. Now I've just finished my Chemo and all the way through as a public patient, I don't want to spend more from the Government, and in fact I am happy with the free wig.
I wonder where the State you are, you might be able to get something, and you can try on in person, instead just payment over the Net and might not like it at the end.
I put on my Wig with a fisherman-head, my friends sometimes forgot I was bold. And also, like you I mixed with scarf and head on. I saw a lot of ladies when check up in hospital, they dressed so good, and decorate their hats and scarf so well, very elegant and modern.
I hope this information might help.
CHeers
Rosanna