Hi Karen,
That's the great thing about this site, you can let out your real fears and realise that you are not alone. Unfortunately there are lots of us.
My husband has had Uveitis on and off for 23 years. Also due to HLAB27 gene. He luckily had no flare ups while I was going through my treatment (2013) but has had 2 in the last 6 months ( still going at the moment). So I know just how painful and disruptive to life this can be. Let alone having Crohns and now breast cancer as well!
I hope you get to have that party at another opportune time on this roller coaster. It is important to grab onto the good moments whenever you can! Whenever you need to have a chat just jump on here. Wishing you all the best. Deanne xxx