As Sam says cherish the moments with her. My daughters were very attentive to me whilst I was on chemo as well. Both live away and have their own commitments. One rang every day and the other one (with little ones) was always ringing and offering her wisdom (she is a Clinical Psycologist). I am so glad that they were not with me to "see" the reality of it all. I know that they think I am wonderful - and of course sometimes they think I am a pain but we have a lovely connection. I now travel and see them often and whilst I am with them I am very aware of "making wonderful memories". XLeonie