It's terrific that you were each able to voice your concerns to each other. We often keep our thoughts and feelings to ourselves because of fear of worrying the other person but it really is the case that a problem shared is a problem halved. Once you have things out in the open it is easier to work on improving life, just like you are now doing. Working together to make changes for the better will bring you even closer together. Wishing you both the strength to succeed in making those changes and having lots of great times ahead together for many years. Just take it one step at a time. Take care. Deanne xxx