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hooper65
11 years agoMember
Mastectomy
Hi friends
Well I haven't written anything for a while. I had my lumpectomy for DCIS on the 23rd June unfortunately they did not get clear margins and found Invasive cancer. Had a mastectomy with SLNB on Tues 21st July home the next day, get results next week on Monday. What a surreal couple of months. I see myself in the mirror and the reflection is something I have always dreaded, a part of me is missing. I'm grateful that it was found, I'm still uncertain of what is next, still playing the waiting game. Have had bone scan, CT Chest, abdo and pelvis all clear. Has been helpful Being on this site, hearing the stories of all you beautiful ladies. Bravery all around.
So just waiting for results and what's next. Thanks for listening.
Sonya
15 Replies
- lrb_03Member
You've got that right Sonya. I may not post much myself, but just reading other people's posts, and the responses somehow lifts my spirit.
take care, Lyn
- hooper65Member
Thanks Summer, you are inspirational. You are so right about this site I am very privileged to be in contact with so many other inspirational ladies. Stay proud, positive and strong and I will endeavour to do the same. Huge thanks
Sonya
- June1952MemberHello Sonya You will find that you are stronger than you ever thought ! Karen's quote is magnificent - thank you, Karen - keep it on hand fore those tiny moments when you doubt yourself. As ladies say, take it one day at a time if you can. Me, I like to plan ahead so I can get my mindset in the right place. My affirmation during my mastectomy and two subsequent emergency surgeries was "I am positive. I am strong. I am proud" and that helped me to focus and get through it. Now, almost a year on my SNAG has hit a downer re the 'new me' so there are more issues to deal with but I am sure, like others, we will make it through. Me, I am just happy to be alive and, after all, who knows once I am dressed ? I will be thinking of you on Monday. You have the support of many wonderful ladies on this site so log on and ask away, vent away - but beyond all else, stay in touch and keep talking. Best wishes and bigger hugs Summer :-)
- hooper65Member
Hi Monica
Good luck with your results. Like I've been told, take it day by day, appointment by appointment, it's a hard slog however with the support of this site, family and friends you will win.
All the best
Sonya
- hooper65Member
Thanks Karen, I will keep that quote close at hand, it is a beauty. I have found all the support since being diagnosed so helpful. The breastcare nurse showed me some selections on Friday, maybe I will have to organise a trip to the city, I live in Rockhampton Qld.
Regards
Sonya
- hooper65Member
Thanks Tracy
You're absolutely right, my family and friends have been wonderful, they are my floaties at present, keeping my head above water. I'm am so lucky and grateful for such fantastic support. This site had also helped so much. Thanks for staying in contact.
Sonya
- hooper65Member
Thanks Lyn this is certainly one of the toughest journeys I've experienced. Having you ladies to talk to is a God send.
Sonya
- hooper65Member
Thanks Robyn, It will take some getting used to I'm grateful you shared your experience with me, it gives me hope.
Regards
Sonya
- hooper65Member
Thanks Annie, yes it certainly seems to all happen in quick succession, although sometimes it just seems to drag on.
Sonya
- monica675Member
Hi Sonya
I tòo have a tough month, after a standard mammogram and was told I had multifocal disease (four separate parts of my breast). I have since had the breast and some lymph nodes removed and am waiting for the pathology results for the next part of my journey. I am actually writing this while recovering in hospital
This site is a god send
I wish everyone well whatever part of the journey you are on