Let's have another conversation about vaginas
Following on from my last post, today was my first appointment with the gynaecologist to discuss vaginal atrophy. By a happy coincidence, it turns out that Dr Metawa is one of the two doctors that in...
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RE LIBIDO: Hi Chris, and anyone else interested in recovering your libido. The best advice I had was this: "You don't need a libido to give sexual pleasure to your partner. You just need to feel love and generosity." I find that often I start out feeling loving and generous (and why wouldn't I after all the wonderful support I've had), and end up finding my libido. Not surprising really. Getting someone else excited often warms things up. I also liked this advice: "You have to boil your own water." In other words, don't make your partner responsible for your libido. Find things that make you feel sensuous and sexual. Plan to seduce your partner and spend the day getting ready. This works too.