Let's have another conversation about vaginas

Hi, it is good to hear information about this treatment again. About 12 months ago I also had the Mona Lisa treatment. I was extremely lucky to find a Gyno doing a clinical trial, so it cost me nothing. For me the jury is still out as far as this procedure goes. I think it has made a bit of a difference, and my husband says he can notice it. For me though, intercourse still feels scratchy and uncomfortable. My biggest disappointment is that I still have no libido, and that makes it hard to get aroused or interested. I was never told the procedure would help my libido, but I had secretly hoped that without dryness and pain, I would feel differently about sex, and my libido would improve. I am now on tamoxifen after 6 years on Femara, so everything is well and truely shrivelled up. I feel sad for my husband who is not ready to live without sex, but in all honesty, I could happily live without sex nowadays. I would love some advice on finding my desire again. I am still plagued by hotflushes (10 YEARS NOW) which often arise when I am touched. A big turn off and my poor husband is so patient and tolerant and I would like to be able to respond in ways other than throwing off the bed clothes and lying like a star fish while I cool down.
Good luck everyone.