Let’s talk about...S.E.X

Too many issues to even think about.

@Zoffiel @Artferret oh that is soo sad...I’m thinking am I never going to experience passion again! I should have gone out and gotten laid before I started this bloody chapter lol

No hormones, no libido. An yes, you're right, you get a flutter and then just as quick it disappears. Try having a hubby who has ED due to prostate cancer and subsequent removal of said organ. It's no fun and coming up to a year for him, he's beginning to be extremely frustrated, as am I. I used to cry for what we have both lost. Now I'm just resigned to it all. Don't know whether he'll ever regain an erection or whether he'll need help of some kind. Things are on the move but nerve endings take so long to heal and I don't know that you ever get back what you used to have.

It's painful! As in micro tears and bleeding. That's what is really getting to me; I've participated even though I'd rather finish my book many times in the last 50 years, but to be physically incapable of even that compromise is a real shock. It's not like there is a lack of experience in the boudoir, nobody is rushing anything and while I'm not exactly champing at the bit, I'm not actively reluctant. Just incapable. Grrrr!

@Brenda5 can I ask is it painful or enjoyable at least? 

Lol @BarbieAnne I don’t have a man at the moment...but would be nice to enjoy some intimacy I’m not that old yet! Lol

I'm on it for as long as it works, so can't see a brighter future with sex. Bit like Merv, give the old man some port

Oh great...now I’m even scared to even try it lol

There just doesn't seem to be an ON button for bodily desire.  I imagine everything still works, its just something I rarely do now. My hubby lives for the day I go off of hormone therapy. 

E for effort thats for sure l think a bird will fly out of mine just like a cuckoo clock.!