Intimacy
Hello Ladies - I have a question reguarding my husband's feelings towards me since my bi-lateral mastecomy. Every birthday, we have sex ,my husband's birthday was on the 18th and despite me letting h...
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Hi Leanne
No matter what..... you are always beautiful, inside and out.
It has been tough on you as well as your hubbie. Men, I find, are like cave men, they hunt and bring home the "bacon". If they can't fix a problem, then they find it hard to accept. And, maybe you have been the problem (as you have been sick), and he can't fix it. Seeing you sick and going through so much, he is finding it hard to accept. He may have the excuse, but maybe deep down, it really relates to another matter, you and not being healthy and normal like it was before.
As the other girls have said, you need to communicate either by talking about it, or putting it to pen and paper.
I always, told my hubbie, how I felt with everything during this horrible time.
If he, didn't know what was going on in my mind. He just walked on egg shells.
We all, have had the sex problem, and I admit still, I find it hard and hurts.
Don't cover yourself up, cos remember, the person on the inside is still there. You are and will be always beautiful, you need to tell yourself that.... every day.
Smile :)
Make a date night with your hubby, and surprise him with a lovely cooked dinner (or even better, takeway) Make time for each other, it may lead to talk and the other thing.........
hope we have helped in some way.
Love and big hugs Julie XX