Impact on our families

I hope you all pull through this, sounds like you will. My son did not want to be part of my breast cancer and my own beautiful daughter bore the brunt of it until she had to go back to work in Melbourne then my husband took over. Add to the fact they must feel this horror will happen to them too it's sometimes just too much for them. I'm worried about my daughter seeing me go thru reconstruction off for more surgery and I think she gets frightened. When I went to Melbourne to see surgeons, she only wanted to sleep in bed with me every night..she 27 and I think I'm scaring her. My husband should seek help but won't, cancer is like a house of cards, mothers and wives are the foundation, when we crack it all comes tumbling down and sometimes I can't breath for the worry of it all. I hope you and your family can move on and share any tips you have with me but don't forget you need to be cared for too xx