This is a tricky one, I suppose in this situation it is best just to accept where people are at. And as you have said, the friends that have struggled with the changes to your lifestyle are the minority. If you offer solutions (by contributing dishes, recipe ideas) perhaps this will minimise things being blown out of proportion.
Maybe they will relax into it over time, maybe they won't - but I agree you should be so proud and stay true to what is important to you!
Not sure if you have come acrossThe My New Roots website? Robyn I have a feeling you will love this one also, I have subscribed to the e-newsletter it is brilliant!
X Steph