Help I'm desperate

i am sooo sorry about the predicament you are in, but having been through the bc journey (albeit with lots of support from my medical team), when i finished treatment all was great, then a couple of months down the line i fell in a heap, i realised things were not okay when i was snapping and snarling at my wonderful husband, who has been there for me all the way through, i went to the surgeon,(we live in a rural area), and he informed me that a large percentage of people who have gone through bc suffer from depression, and i was prescribed anti depressants, so probably not only is you wife feeling let down, she is obviously suffering from depression as well, is there any women that you know of in your area who have gone through the journey, who could maybe visit her? or i am sure if you got in touch with a support group (if there is any in your area), they would be more than happy to arrange someone (not from the medical environment), just someone who has been there. As tonya says, you also have to take care of yourself, and your wife is sooooo lucky to have you, (it's just such a pity at this point that she maybe knows that she is lucky, but is just so down she cant get over the bad treatment from others that has happened to her and concentrate on the good things in her life.) Keep comming back, i am sure someone will come up with an idea that may be of help, and meanwhile you get to vent, cry or laugh. We are here to listen. Take Care regards Moira