It has now been 8months since I had chemo. I think I've seen high rise buildings go up quicker than my hair! I can't do anything with these chemo curls-they have a mind of their own.I look in the mirror and can hardly recognize myself.Wish I could embrace the new look and skip out the front door.I try but then chicken out and put on a headband.I have a drawer full of headbands now.I know I'm lucky to be alive and shouldn't be so vain. But somewhere along this journey of losing body bits and confidence,I lost the image that was "me".

Hi Tonya, I lost every hair on my body (must say I was quite happy with the look and happy to go without scarves, hats, etc, as they made me more self concious). When mine grew back it was very fuzzy, like baby hair - I just kept getting the fuzzy wispy bits trimmed off and now it is quite reasonable. It is still very soft, but I wear it short and spikey anyway. Try getting a couple of trims and see if it makes a difference. Good luck Di :)

I agree exactly with you. My hair was dark with only a few grey hairs, now it just starting to grow back and it looks like there is a lot of grey there. I have put on heaps of weight with the chemo. Now I am going to start tamoxifen which apparantly will make me put on more weight. I already had to buy new clothes to fit into. Then of course the reminder of losing your breasts. I feel like I am cancer Dot. I just want to be the old Dot. Yes I too are glad that I am alive and dont want to miss out on my kids lives. But what happen to the spirit of the old Dot. Sorry no advice, just I get what you are saying. love Dot xxx

Thanks Dot for your thoughts.I'm sorry you feel like this too but at the same time it's good to know I'm not the only one grieving for my old self.It's a big chunk of time out of your life this cancer journey.And even when it's over you look like a cancer person for ages.I've put on abit of weight too and it's really hard to shift it.I don't feel like exercising much in this heat cos tamoxifen gives me hot flushes- I have a heap of excuses!!! I guess in time we'll adapt to our new selves.Take care. Tonya xx

Hi Tonya, I have Chemo Curls too... It has been a year now, my hair it just pass my year. It took my a year to grow this ... A Quick advise - get a new Hair dresser who didn't know you before ... explain your pain and what do you want to acheive ... you will be amaze with a new Hair Dresser's touch and little gel here, a little blow drying there ... you might decide to embrace your new-self ... It is midnight .. got to hit the sack ... will write more tomorrow. P.s. Do join me on Chemo Style Group ... lets work out how we can help you "Looking fabulous" and embrace your new self - the Strong Survivor. chemostyle

Hi chemostyle, I looked into getting a new hairdresser yesterday would you believe.I want an expert in colour and someone understanding of my situation.I'm hoping to have something done with my hair next week. Thanks for your encouragement. Tonta

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di-p52
Member
15 years ago
Hi Tonya,

I lost every hair on my body (must say I was quite happy with the look and happy to go without scarves, hats, etc, as they made me more self concious).

When mine grew back it was very fuzzy, like baby hair - I just kept getting the fuzzy wispy bits trimmed off and now it is quite reasonable. It is still very soft, but I wear it short and spikey anyway. Try getting a couple of trims and see if it makes a difference.

Good luck

Di :)
Dot42
Member
15 years ago
I agree exactly with you. My hair was dark with only a few grey hairs, now it just starting to grow back and it looks like there is a lot of grey there. I have put on heaps of weight with the chemo. Now I am going to start tamoxifen which apparantly will make me put on more weight. I already had to buy new clothes to fit into. Then of course the reminder of losing your breasts.

I feel like I am cancer Dot. I just want to be the old Dot. Yes I too are glad that I am alive and dont want to miss out on my kids lives. But what happen to the spirit of the old Dot.

Sorry no advice, just I get what you are saying.

love Dot xxx
TonyaM
Member
15 years ago
Thanks Dot for your thoughts.I'm sorry you feel like this too but at the same time it's good to know I'm not the only one grieving for my old self.It's a big chunk of time out of your life this cancer journey.And even when it's over you look like a cancer person for ages.I've put on abit of weight too and it's really hard to shift it.I don't feel like exercising much in this heat cos tamoxifen gives me hot flushes- I have a heap of excuses!!! I guess in time we'll adapt to our new selves.Take care.

Tonya xx
chemostyle
Member
15 years ago
Hi Tonya,

I have Chemo Curls too... It has been a year now, my hair it just pass my year. It took my a year to grow this ...

A Quick advise - get a new Hair dresser who didn't know you before ... explain your pain and what do you want to acheive ... you will be amaze with a new Hair Dresser's touch and little gel here, a little blow drying there ... you might decide to embrace your new-self ...

It is midnight .. got to hit the sack ... will write more tomorrow.

P.s. Do join me on Chemo Style Group ... lets work out how we can help you "Looking fabulous" and embrace your new self - the Strong Survivor.

chemostyle
TonyaM
Member
15 years ago
Hi chemostyle,

I looked into getting a new hairdresser yesterday would you believe.I want an expert in colour and someone understanding of my situation.I'm hoping to have something done with my hair next week. Thanks for your encouragement.

Tonta
moira1
Member
15 years ago
look forward to seeing the new look tonya soon then. hope you get the desired effect. new hairdresser seems like a good idea, GOOD LUCK X I also put weight on during treatment , but without trying to i lost 10 kilos in 18months after treatment., so hopefully it the same for everyone, it will gradually come back to normal
TonyaM
Member
15 years ago
Thanks Moira,that's good to know about the weight thing.It's really strange that you put on weight from chemo when you don't feel like eating.I think my weight gain might be from Tamoxifen -hey,got to blame something!

Tonya xx
louiseg
Member
15 years ago
I understand what everyone is saying....I want the old me back too :( I am sick of not knowing what my body is doing.

My hair is coming back (slowly but a lot of grey!) but I think it will still be months before I can go without my wig.

My weight seems to have stabilised again...although at about 5kg heavier than I was before I started chemo/Tamoxifen.

Now my periods seem to have come back with a venegance - really really heavy (changing tampons every hour) and I don't know what to do about that! I am really crampy and feel really down today.

Hopefully tomorrow will be a better day :(

Louise
louiseg
Member
15 years ago
I understand what everyone is saying....I want the old me back too :( I am sick of not knowing what my body is doing.

My hair is coming back (slowly but a lot of grey!) but I think it will still be months before I can go without my wig.

My weight seems to have stabilised again...although at about 5kg heavier than I was before I started chemo/Tamoxifen.

Now my periods seem to have come back with a venegance - really really heavy (changing tampons every hour) and I don't know what to do about that! I am really crampy and feel really down today.

Hopefully tomorrow will be a better day :(

Louise
TonyaM
Member
15 years ago
Hi Louise,

You can't control those hormones-they have a mind of their own.Seems like alot of bleeding though.Leading up to menopause I would get heavy,irregular periods.It makes you so tired.Hey,in another few months you'll be up to the headband stage!! Honestly it grows so slowly.Hope you feel better tomorrow.

Tonya xx