Grumpy is a passive stage of anger and anger is one of the methods your body can use to rise up to the occasion of beating breast cancer and all the rubbish that goes with it. It takes a bit of effort to settle it all down but I tend to look at things now as 'what does it matter in the grand world scheme of things' and it makes me feel a bit better. Maybe we should be issued with a Pinyata (not sure how that's spelled) in our journey kit so we can belt the hell out of it and feel better lol.