Getting there
In May this year it will be 4 years since diagnosis (at 47) for me (IDC Stage 3, Grade 2, ER and PR +). As time has gone by I have made many changes to my life. Changes that help me cope with side ef...
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Hi @Jackie - so sorry that you are in the situation when you think that your life is back "on track" that your dear Mum is suffering.
I too was in a similar situation - Mum passed away in 2014 following a bc diagnosis in 2006 then secondary bc in 2012.
As I was the "trailblazer" in the family - I was diagnosed first in 2003 - the fear of recurrence is always there, it just seems to fade into the background as the years go by and you get on with "life".
Jackie, focus on your health (mental and physical) so that you are better able to help not only your Mum but your own family and in turn yourself !
Given that your Mum had bc diagnosis and radiotherapy in 1991, she has had 25 years since treatment until her terminal illness now. I know that is of no reassurance to you at the moment, especially now that she is so dependent on you (which I am sure she does not like).
Even though she has refused all treatment, perhaps her GP (who is helping her with pain meds ?) might be someone helpful for you to speak with.
Best wishes to both your Mum, your family and you.
Sheryl xx