In May this year it will be 4 years since diagnosis (at 47) for me (IDC Stage 3, Grade 2, ER and PR +). As time has gone by I have made many changes to my life. Changes that help me cope with side ef...
I went through similar with Mum. She was hospitalized towards the end. Mum's main fear was dying alone and she struggled if she was alone. The staff at the hospital let us visit earlier than visiting hours as she would relax with us there. Dad and us 5 kids were there when she took her last breath.
Hope that helps to understand the grumpiness.
This time with her is precious. As Mum went into a coma in the last we kept nattering around her. It was a beautiful thing to do.