Hi Michelle - slow to read your original post but now I have. Four years wow how good is that, you are that far along. The word Oophorectomy - yes I understand what it is but it makes me smile when I read it as it almost sounds like a made up name!
Goodness you have been through heaps already and here's hoping that the stress of everyday life is more manageable now and that everything is to use your words, less daunting.
Remember we are here to read and help you along as we get it. And no one is ever a sook, unless someone ate the chocolate that you had hid for yourself, then you can sook! We're all in this together!
Take care