JJoy
15 years agoMember
Fed up!
Well ladies, I would bang my head against the wall, but the wall would probably break. I am set for my next Chemo on Wednesday - and my oncologist wants me to start Herceptin. The thing is, I had h...
Hi Josie,
I think some people can't handle the whole cancer thing or even just medical problems in general.They don't know what to say to you for fear of upsetting you or fear you might rabbit on about gory details or your emotions.This may make them feel uncomfortable to be around us.My 2 sisters have never had anything wrong with them and are not medically inclined.If I go into too much gory detail I can see them literally squirming in their chairs.They have avoided me somewhat.But that's ok because they really don't understand.I don't take it personally and hey,who wants to hang around a hypochondriac! I doubt that our unsympathetic ones would be able to cope with what we've been through.I only "off load"to my true caring supporters and just talk about trivia with the others-the ones that CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTH !
luv Tonya xx