Love this. Yes....my breakdown (before bc diagnosis....but same year ) brought similar discussions. My husband and I started to do things we had stopped doing due to kids and a busy life. We started to go for rides on his bike again. We had a 1 week trip not long prior diagnosis which was so special. We had planned a huge trip which didn't happen due to treatment. Last weekend when I was away without him I bought my triple layered motorbike pants at last. He realised I was ready. Got home tonight and there it was ...the new planned trip...over 3000 km. It will be next year...but damn it it's gonna happen. And on those trips we reconnect. ..just us...talking for hours again with no distractions.