dumb thing people say

 yes l agree people thing that cause chemo radation finished youre back to normal , and you are supposed to be able to do what you used to prior cancer , l was at the vets for sedation for me dog anyway the vet was explaining the medication l want for the dog was not good and hads bad effects , then in the next breath she said look its like you coming in here asking for chemo   so youre hair falls out well l burst into tear then she said oh  did l something wrong mind you the reception girl was there and knew what ld gone through she was horrifieof  the comment of the vet made quietly she passed me the tissues ,  its hard enought going though all of this cancer stuff treatment hair loss nails lost without people and there comments  some people just dont think