Want to hear another disgusting thing. My husband's aunt just passed away and she left instructions and money for her youngest son to pay for the wake. He never paid for a thing (it was only close family gathered after the internment of the ashes- about 8 of us). He also left early as he said he had to do his washing before moving on with his campavan and his lovely older wife. This fella doesn't work and has sponged off his wife and mother all these years. We thought it was funny that his two older brothers kept saying "get ........to buy you a beer". My husband and I always pay our own way so just did like we always do. After this "human being" left his brother old us the reason. We were utterly gobsmacked and won't be telling my mother in law. She would be so hurt that her nephew would do that to his deceased mother. "They" are out there everythere and when we come across them we all must RUN and very QUICKLY. XLeonie