Wow I thought I was the only one with a completely narcissistic mother. She told EVERYONE despite being told not to. And I mean EVERYONE. Random people, shop assistants, just everyone. She told someone who is in contact with my two brothers who we haven’t seen for years( my parents included). So of course they would know now. Probably danced a little jig when they heard. Luckily I have plenty of other crap to worry about now so I won’t lose sleep over it. I have the hot flushes and worry of recurrence for that.