@Zoffiel & @iserbrown thanks so much for the great suggestion. Unfortunately even if I did decide to send it it’s a pointless exercise - she just lives on a different planet. I have just chosen to distance myself. I will see her when it is required but apart from that - information is on a need to know basis and she has lost the pleasure of my scintillating company :p. What’s that expression - do it once shame on u, do it twice shame on me?! This is third time she has done something like this to me unfortunately - a girl can only take so much.
@arpie I so agree with your politically correct paragraph - so very true and love the pic.
Thank u all u ladies for your brilliant advice and varying opinions - I appreciate every one - u are all a wealth of experience and advice!! xoxox