@onemargie - there is no such thing as the “happy family” really. She has always favoured my brother in law over my husband even though he treats her like crap and because he lives in Brisbane my husband does everything for her - he goes round there once a week and looks after the house and gardens and she just takes it for granted - makes me so sick cause he is such a good person. She has been incredibly selfish and narcissistic since my lovely father in law passed away - world revolves round her and what she wants and stuff anyone else.
As as an update my hubby hasn’t heard from her today and she normally rings once a day at least. We think she either knows she did something wrong and is giving it a day to go away or because she is so selfish she is sulking cause she thinks she is hard done by.