@"Kiwi Angel" what a cow, poor you. I completely understand. These sort of things can be more upsetting than the dealing with diagnosis and treatment. I have hardly shed a tear also since diagnosis and when I have it's for similar ..... at the end of the day she's gossiping and its mean. You'll learn big things from this. Don't trust her, ever, but be careful, don't let her come between you and your husband. It's not worth it. Hugs .
.... and @SoldierCrab ... a big hug to you right now, what a disgraceful hurtful comment from an ex sister in law. There is no excuse. No matter how long ago it was said it still has an ugly gouge to it.
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