@Eastmum thanks for your kind words - as usual all the ladies here have been fantastic support. She will suffer the loss of me in her life but the saddest thing is she won’t get why. She tends to have an ostrich issue and if something unpleasant happens that she gets called out on she just pretends it never happened and forgets about it. Being the second time she has done it to me though is the last straw. It’s sad because with this one thing she has undone every nice thing she did for me over the last 3 months. She must of been on the phone to them as soon as I was diagnosed - she told them ages ago apparently!!