Anxiety and depression

Dear Bella Well, you weren't waffling at all. I think all you said is valid and possibly quite right in some instances. I Like your idea of suggesting gently to her how she makes me feel, but I d by think it will do anything. She just at wants to be distant, & she clearly enjoys calling our situation "estranged", even though she is the one who keeps her distance and is never in touch unless it's totally necessary. Thanks so much for your insights-they've helped me a lot. Love from Kathleen xxxxx