You are so right, Kathleen. This particularr Lady did admit to me a long time ago that she was jealous of me. I find it very childish and will try to avoid her in the future and if I do happen to see her I will try not to take her remarks to heart. Like you say, I think it is because we are strong and continue to live life to the fullest. I try to be positive and enjoy every day and don't need to be put down. It is our strength that keeps us going when we could have easily crumbled. I am not going to let her get to me anymore because we need to be around positive people and people who understand where we are coming from. Unless they walk in our shoes, they have no idea what we have been through. Love Ruth xxx