Seriously I don't get it? At what point in life do you stop and say enough is enough and some things are more important in life! You don't have to be best buddies just because you are related but surely there is some genuine concern, for their own well being if nothing else! That makes me really sad. I understand that not all families are perfect, god knows that I had an extremely difficult and destructive relationship with my mother, but when the chips were down we were there for one another. Family is not always blood related though. Surround yourselves with people who love you for who you are. This process we are all enduring is just too hard to do alone. Even if the ones who support you are from this forum. Be kind to yourselves. Xoxoxo