I can totally relate to your sibling situation Kathleen and truly feel for you. My own sister & I are 8 years apart in age and our personalities are chalk and cheese but it disappoints me that after ringing her to tell her to be extra vigilant herself now that I've been diagnosed with BC and mum having passed so quickly after her diagnosis, I have had no further contact from her. Not even a "how are you message." My brother is the same (12 years younger than me), he found out from my sister because he isn't presently communicating with me so it's my fault again. How pathetic some families can be. I've chosen to put them out of my mind and meet new people like yourself that have a heart. Heart hugs Sandra