Hi there Tink, you are not alone with how you are feeling, I'm only 7 months post chemo and have had a double mastectomy and wasn't keen on more surgery, but have decided I will consider it and just see what the surgeon says, If you meet a bloke lovey just be yourself, he should be able to see past the one boob thing if hes a decent bloke, you are more than just a boob lovey, love yourself boob or no boob, you are beautiful anyway, and your scars are a sign of courage and strength not disfigurement. My hubby loves me just the same with or without boobs and is grateful that I'm alive and well and doesn't give a shit about the no boob thing. There are good blokes out there. Margie :)