People love to relate horror stories of people they have known who had cancer WHY?
My aunt friend etc ohhhhh they suffered terribly. Or ,they were gone just like that !
My mother in law likes to relive the time her husband had cancer and died in his eighties ohh it was terrible.
The worst is a friend who has had cancer twice. She can be supportive but loves to tell me of friends with cancer that had severe radiation burns or bad reactions to chemo etc. Others died Ahhhhh I dont know her friends I dont want to know.
Apricot kernels ,diets etc I have heard it all.
My pet hate and I preface this by saying everyone is entitled to their beliefs....Everything happens for a reason....
So babies and puppy dogs get cancer WHY?
In my case part of the reason I had cancer was I have the bracken gene and my father had breast cancer thats a good reason.......Funnily enough my sister did not inherit the bracken gene but I did.
Treat me normally ,Treat me well. What not to say lets turn that round and say what to say . If you cant say anything a card saying something like thinking of you would be well appreciated. Most people like being sent flowers or a present. Being ignored is no fun.
