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- traveltextMemberThanks.
- RomlaMemberI think you need to contact the mods and will need a group administrator.
- traveltextMemberHmmm, setting up a group here is not very intuitive. Does anyone have an idea how to do this?
- RomlaMemberNo worries just thinking about those poor newly diagnosed blokes who may be somewhat inhibited by so many ladies initially - that is until they get to know us. :)
- traveltextMember
@Romla For now this page serves the purpose IMO:
https://onlinenetwork.bcna.org.au/discussion/16001/male-breast-cancer
But, sure, a group page would be better. I'll set one up. - RomlaMemberSo how about a men’s group @traveltext to get the ball rolling here ?
- traveltextMember
@Romla @kmakm I hear you loud and clear. Yes, men will talk to other men when they know it's private. I find this since I'm on a prostate cancer FB page and men go on about anything and everything (mostly about sex or the inability to have it after a prostatectomy) to each other. I've noticed over the past four year, also, that very few men publicly chat about their breast cancer. The ones that do end up here:https://malebreastcancercoalition.org/survivor-stories/
Interestingly, 10 of these men are like me and have both breast and prostate cancer. For women, as you would be aware, it's breast and ovarian cancer that sometimes go together.
I edit these stories when they come in, so I know all about these guys. However, because of the small number of men overall, a small percentage of bloggers still means just a few men here in Australia (150 new cases a year). In the U.S. it's around 2,500 cases per annum.
Similarly, only a small percentage of women with the disease post on BCNA, but a small percentage of a much larger number means plenty of women wanting help and plenty of women offering help. This is excellent.So, you can see why I go global!!
I have to say, though, that whenever I come here, I find a great bunch of supportive women. - RomlaMember@traveltext also as male members on the blog are relatively small it might make it easier for new male members to find another male member
- kmakmMemberI second that @Romla.
- RomlaMemberIn light of the above @traveltext in addition to contributing on the general blog page would it be useful to have a blokes group on the blog.I only suggest this as they maybe some matters concerning male bc people that they may feel more comfortable in a private space ? I do however reaffirm my first comment about still participating in the general blog.Just a thought as there is a topic or two I’d rather share with a female plus may help a newbie bloke find the confidence to join the blog initially.