OMG, @Chevvy - as Cath says - that REALLY SUCKS. I am so sorry to hear of the kids' dad's situation too - I know exactly how hard that is xx
Lots of BIG HUGS coming your way xx I invested in plenty of Bundy Rum over the last 8 weeks ..... so totally understand you renewing your friendship with Jack Daniels! xx.
You are one super strong, tough lady - to be so concerned for everyone else ahead of yourself, whilst you've just received this recurrence news - so you are allowed to have as many sooky moments as you need.) xx But please, make sure that you chat with the team here or a psychologist to help you with appropriate coping mechanisms to help you thru all this xx. Your work is obviously very stressful too - but right now - you need to look after YOU first, so that you can then get back to help them, later on. xx
Enjoy the Big hugs coming from hubby tomorrow too (and the rest of the family as they learn the news too) xx
take care and all the best xx