Hi @Marie64 - welcome to the forum - tho as Kate says - none of us really want to be here! :(
With your diagnosis 12 years ago - I am guessing you had surgery & maybe chemo or radiation and probably hormone tablets? Is everything going well with you now?
I am 65 and my lump (Invasive Lobular Cancer) was detected last November. I had my surgery in January, then had 4 weeks of radiation and am now on hormone inhibiting tablets for a minimum of 5 years.
Put up any question you like ...... and someone will jump on & answer it!
take care xx